After a chat with some of my friends over the past weekend, I am apparently banned from picking out my own boyfriends, especially because I just have not had the greatest luck doing so.
Ya know what, they can take a crack at finding me a good man. They know me well enough and if it works out, great, and if not, no major loss. At this point I am getting more enjoyment out of meeting a number of new people and hanging out with them, without the pressures that come from taking it beyond a casual level.
Also, there may be a few opportunities coming down the pike that will be much easier to act on if I am not tied down ;-) Just have to see how it shakes out.